Quora精选：你怎么确定一个人真的爱你？
How do you know when someone really loves you?
你如何知晓有人真的爱你？
获得32.8k好评的回答@Sruthi Punnana：
My sister and I were preparing for biology exam(we are twins). I can say that I am weak in that subject. However, I wrote the exam successfully after rigorous hardwork. The day had finally arrived. Results!
姐姐和我正在准备生物考试（我们是双胞胎）。我得说我生物不好，然而在付出艰辛努力之后我考得很好。这一天终于到来了，考试成绩出来了！
I got 90/100.
满分100分我考了90分。
“This evening I will be celebrating Diwali with my mom. Wait, how much did Pallu (my twin sister) score ?”
“今天晚上我要跟妈妈过排灯节（印度的宗教节日）。等等，Pallu（我的双胞胎姐姐）得了多少分？”
Me : How much did you score?
我：你多少分？
Pallu: First, you tell me.
Pallu：你先说。
Me: 90
我：90
Pallu : 86
Pallu：86
Me: What's the highest?
我：最高分是多少？
Pallu: 95.
Pallu：95
Me: What the hell !!
我：真见鬼！！
My mom after looking at our results, she scolded Pallu badly. She didn't scold me, as I scored more marks than her.
看完我们的成绩之后，妈妈严厉地批评了Pallu，没有批评我，因为我比她分高。
Next day morning:
第二天早上：
Me: Pallu, Where is my maths notes?
我：Pallu，我数学笔记在哪儿？
Pallu : It's in my bag.
Pallu：在我包里。
Me :Ok! I’ll take.
我：好，我去拿。
While I was searching for the book, I got her biology paper. I was totally dazzled after looking into it. She got 95/100. She scored the highest in the class.
我找书时看到了她的生物试卷，仔细一看我完全呆住了。她得了95分，全班最高分。
Pallu: Got the book?
Pallu：找到书了吗？
Me: Why did you lie to me? (Showing her paper)
我：你为什么骗我？（拿着她的试卷）
Pallu: I know how much you have studied for that exam. 90 is a good score but mom will compare yours with mine. So, I wanted to give the credit to you.
Pallu：我知道为这个考试你学得多努力，90分很高了，但妈妈会拿你的成绩和我比，所以我想让你得到表扬。
Me : (Speechless)
我：（无语了）
Immediately I called my mom and dad. I told them the entire scene. They appreciated Pallu for her love towards me. They also congratulated me for getting 90/100. From then, my parents stopped comparing us. It's just because of her. Seriously, she's been a gift to me.
我马上叫来妈妈和爸爸，告诉他们整个经过，他们称赞了Pallu对我的爱，也祝贺我得了90分。从那以后父母再也不拿我们两个作比较了，这都是因为她，说真的，她就是上天赐给我的礼物。
This one incident explains, how much my sister loves me.
这件小事就说明我姐姐有多爱我了。
获得10.1k好评的回答@Pratik Shelke：
Yesterday I had posted a status at 2 am. “Although he is an atheist, sometimes he looks up at the sky and asks ‘When are you calling me, God?’”
昨天凌晨2点钟我发布了一条状态：“虽然他是无神论者，但有时他会抬头看向天空问‘上帝呀，你什么时候把我叫走？’”
As soon as my friends saw it, 3 of them quickly responded, “What happened? Are you okay?”
我3个好友看到后马上回复：“怎么了？你还好吗？”
I saw the messages. But didn’t reply to anyone. Just kept my mobile aside. Perhaps all I needed was some silence and some soothing music. Next, I switched on my Laptop. And while listening to the soundtrack by Hans Zimmer, I never realized when did I escape to eternity.
我看到消息了，但没给任何人回复，手机就放在身边，可能我只需要安静和放松的音乐。然后我打开了笔记本电脑，听汉斯·季默的音乐时我就不会想什么时候要逃脱到来世。
I woke up late in the morning. 2 of the 3 persons that had asked me if I was fine, didn’t message me anymore. But there were 20 messages and 7 missed calls from the 3rd person. And that person was my sister :)
早上我起得很晚，3个好友中有两个问过我是否还好后就再没消息了。但第三个人给我发了20条消息，打了7个电话，那个人就是我姐姐。
In your life, you will have people like the first two who would, either call them your close friend or like you or need you or try to return your favor. And then you will have that person who will lose his sleep just because of a small doubt of having you in trouble. And that is the person who really loves you :)
在你的生活中会遇到一些人像前两个人那样，自称是你的好朋友，或者喜欢你，或者需要你，或者努力回报你。你也会遇到这样的人，仅仅因为怀疑你遇到麻烦了就睡不着觉，这就是真正爱你的人。
（翻译：菲菲）
