爸爸给儿子的信英文
全世界的父亲其实是一样的，都希望自己的孩子能够成才，那么来看看外国的父亲会对孩子说什么吧，接下来是本站小编整理的爸爸给儿子的信英文范文，欢迎阅读。
dear son...
亲爱的儿子...
the day that you see me old and i am already not, have patience and try to understand me …
哪天当你看到我日渐老去 身体也渐渐不行 请耐着性子 试着了解我...
if i get dirty when eating… if i can not dress… have patience....
如果我吃的脏兮兮 甚至已不会穿衣服 耐心一点儿...
remember the hours i spent teaching it to you.
你记得我曾经花了多少时间 教你这些事吗?
when i do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…
当我不想洗澡 不要羞辱我也不要责骂我...
when you were small, i had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep…
你小时候 我必须一遍又一遍地 读着同样的故事 直到你静静睡着...
if, when i speak to you, i repeat the same things thousand and one times… do not interrupt me… listen to me...
当我一再重复 说着同样的事情 请你不要打断我 听我说...
remember when i had to chase you with thousand excuses i invented, in order that you wanted to bath…
你记得小时候 我曾经编出多少理由 只为了哄你洗澡...
when you see my ignorance on new technologies… give me the necessary time and not look at me with your mocking smile…
当你看到我对新科技一无所知 给我一点时间 不要嘲笑我...
i taught you how to do so many things… to eat good, to dress well… to confront life…
我曾经教会了你多少事情啊 如何好好地吃 好好的穿 如何面对你的生命...
when at some moment i lose the memory or the thread of our conversation… let me have the necessary time to remember…
and if i cannot do it, do not become nervous…
as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me…
如果交谈中 我忽然失忆 不知道该说什么了 给我一些时间想想...
如果我还是无能为力 不要紧张...
对我而言 重要的不是说话 而是能跟你在一起以及你的倾听...
if ever i do not want to eat, do not force me. i know well when i need to and when not.
当我不想吃东西时 不要勉强我 我清楚知道该什么时候进食...
when my tired legs do not allow me walk... give me your hand…
the same way i did when you gave your first steps...
当我的腿不听使唤 扶我一把...
就像我当初扶着你 踏出你人生的第一步...
and when someday i say to you that i do not want to live any more…
that i want to die… do not get angry… some day you will understand…
try to understand that my age is not lived but survived...
当哪天我告诉你 我不想再活下去了...
不要生气 总有一天 你会了解...
试着了解我 已风烛残年 来日可数...
some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, i always wanted the best thing for you and that i tried to prepare the way for you...
有一天你会发现 即使我有许多过错 我总是尽我所能 给你最好的...
you must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you...
you must be next to me, try to understand me and to help me as i did it when you started living...
当我靠近你时 不要觉得感伤 生气 或埋怨...
你要紧挨着我 如同当初我帮着你展开人生一样的 了解我 帮我 ...
help me to walk… help me to end my way with love and patience...
i will pay you by a smile and by the immense love i have had always for you...
扶我一把 用爱和耐心 帮我走完人生...
我将用微笑 和我始终不变的爱 来回报你 ...
i love you son…
我爱你 我的孩子...
your father
你的父亲
爸爸给儿子的信英文范文二：给我儿子的一封信
亲爱的塞思，
你现在只有3岁，在这个人生阶段，你还看不懂这封信，更难明白在这封信里我将要告诉你的东西。但是，我一直在思考很多关于在有你之前的生活，关于在我的生活中，只要我想起来我所学到的东西，关于作为一个父亲，试图为你将要在未来的年月所要面对的麻烦事所做的准备。
你现在无法理解今天的这封信，但总有一天，当你准备好了，我希望你能在我跟你分享的东西里找到一些有智慧和价值的东西。
你还年轻，生活已经不得不损耗你，不得不把失望，悲痛，孤独和斗争和痛苦带到你行进的路上。然而庆幸的是你尚未被长时间做着吃力不讨好的工作和日常生活中的打击所拖垮。
为此，要感谢上天，你正处于一个奇妙的人生阶段，并且许多美好的人生阶段还会来到，但是你想得到它们也要为此付出代价和承受风险。
我希望能通过分享我学会的经验中，最好的一些内容来帮助你走好人生之路。对于任何意见，就以半信半疑的态度来接受吧，因为对我起作用的东西不一定就对你起作用。
生活可能是残忍的
在你的生活中，你会遇到对你不好的人。他们会取笑你，因为你的不同，或者没有很好的理由，他们也会取笑你。他们可能会欺负你或伤害你。
对于这样的人，除了学会如何应付他们，就没有什么你能做的了，学会选择对你友好，真正关心你，让你自我感觉良好的朋友。当您找到这样的朋友，把握他们，珍惜他们，花时间与他们相处，善待他们并且爱他们。
生活中，你会遇到成功代替失望的时候，生活不会总是按你想要的方式进行。这只是你将不得不学会处理的另一件事。为了不让这些事情放倒你，你要接受失望并且学会坚持，尽管困难重重，也要坚持去追求你自己的梦想。学会把悲观变为乐观，那么在生活中，你就会做得更好。
你还将面临你爱着的人给你带来的心碎和遗弃你。我希望你不必面对太多这样的事情，但如果它发生，同样，你所能做的就是等待伤口愈合，并且继续你的生活。让这些痛苦成为你将事情变得更好的垫脚石，并且你要学会利用它们来使你变得更加强大。
但是，无论如何要对生活开放
是的，在漫长的人生旅途中，你会发现残酷和痛苦的事情...但不要因为那些东西，让你就对新事物关上了门，不要避开生活，不要躲藏起来或者自我隔离，要始终对新事物，新体验和新朋友开放。
你可能会心碎10次，但可能会在第11次爱情中找到最美妙的女子。如果你让自己跟爱隔绝，你将会错过了那个女人，以及你生命中最快乐的时光。
你可能会被你遇到的人取笑，欺负和伤害...然后在经历遇到几十个混球后，会找到一个真正的朋友。如果你和新认识的人隔离，不对他们打开心扉，你会避免痛苦...但你也会失去一些不可思议的人，这些人会在你生命中最艰难的时候会陪着你，并且创造出你生命中最好的一些时光。
你会失败很多次，但如果你允许自己停止尝试，你将错过那种获得成功时的感觉，那种感觉就是一旦你取得成绩并达到新的高度时所得到的令人惊异的感觉。失败是通往成功的一块垫脚石。
生活并不是一场竞争比赛
在学校里，在大学里，在工作中，你将会遇到很多想超越你的人。他们会尝试去拥有更好的车，更大的房子，更好的衣服，更酷的器具。对他们来说，生活就是一场竞争比赛-他们要做的比他们的同行者更好才能开心。
这里有一个秘密告诉你：生活不是一场竞争比赛。它是一个旅程。如果在旅程中，你总是试图让别人对自己印象深刻，超越别人，你其实是在浪费你的旅程。相反，你应学会享受旅程，使它成为一个幸福，不断学习，不断改进，和爱的旅程。
不必为拥有更好的汽车，房子或物质东西，甚至是更好的高薪工作烦恼。那些东西都无关紧，没有它会使你更快乐些。因为当你获得这些东西后，你就只想要得更多。相反，学会满足-然后利用那些时间，就是你想挣钱来买那些东西所浪费的时间，利用那些时间去做你爱做的事情。
找出你的酷爱并顽强地去追求它。不要满足于能支付你的帐单的工作。生命太短暂，不要浪费它在你所憎恨的工作上。
爱应该是你的规则
如果有一个字应该在你的生活中一起伴随你，那么它应该是：爱。这可能听起来是老生常谈，我知道...但相信我，在生活中再也没有比它更好的规则。
有些人会靠成功的规则生存。他们的生活将是紧张，不愉快和肤浅的。
其他人则靠自私的规则生存-他们的需求高于其他人的需求。他们将寂寞地生活，并且也将是不开心的。
还有一些人是靠正义的规则所生活-他们试图展示正确的途径，并告诫任何不靠那条途径生活的人。他们担心他人，但是却以消极的方式来进行，最终只会和他们自己所拥有的正义一起生活，那会是一个可怕的伴侣。
按照爱的规则去过你的生活吧。用你的全身心去爱你的配偶，你的孩子，你的父母，朋友。给他们所需要的东西，并在他们面前只表示你的爱，没有残酷，没有反对，没有冷漠，没有失望。对他们开放你的心灵。
不仅爱你的亲人，还有你的邻居... ...你的同事，陌生人...人类范围中你的兄弟姐妹们。向每个你遇见的人微笑，说善意的话语，做友好的手势，伸出援助之手。
不仅爱邻居和陌生人...还要爱你的敌人。那个对你最残酷的人，那个一直对你不客气的人...去爱他。因为他是一个在受折磨的灵魂，也最需要你的爱。
最重要的是，要爱你自己。在别人可能骂你时，学会不要让你自己对此感到非常艰难，不要认为自己是丑陋，或者愚蠢，或者不值得爱...相反，要认为你是一个奇妙的人儿，是值得拥有幸福和爱的人... ，学习去爱那个本来的你。
最后，我要让你知道我爱你，并将永远爱你。你开始了一个奇怪的，可怕的，艰巨的，但最终是不可思议的奇妙旅程，只要可以，我将会在那儿等你。祝福你。
爱你的爸爸
A Letter to My Son
Dear Seth,
You’re only three years old, and at this point in your life you can't read, much less understand what I’m going to try to tell you in this letter. But I've been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I've learned, and about my role as a dad in trying to prepare you for the trials that you will face in the coming years.
You won't be able to understand this letter today, but someday, when you're ready, I hope you will find some wisdom and value in what I share with you.
You are young, and life has yet to take its toll on you, to throw disappointments and heartaches and loneliness and struggles and pain into your path. You have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work, by the slings and arrows of everyday life.
For this, be thankful. You are at a wonderful stage of life. You have many wonderful stages of life still to come, but they are not without their costs and perils.
I hope to help you along your path by sharing some of the best of what I've learned. As with any advice, take it with a grain of salt. What works for me might not work for you.
Life Can Be Cruel
There will be People in your life who won't be very nice. They'll tease you because you're different, or for no good reason. They might try to bully you or hurt you.
There's not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them, and learn to choose friends who are kind to you, who actually care about you, who make you feel good about yourself. When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them.
There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success. Life won't always turn out the way you want. This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with. But instead of letting these things get you down, push on. Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls. Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life.
You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love. I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens. Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life. Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger.
But Be Open to life Anyway
Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things. Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off. Be open to new things, new experiences, new people.
You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time. If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.
You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend. If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life.
You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments. Failure is a stepping stone to success.
Life Isn't a Competition
You will meet many people who will try to outdo you, in school, in college, at work. They'll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler gadgets. To them, life is a competition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy.
Here's a secret: Life isn't a competition. It's a journey. If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your journey. Instead, learn to enjoy the journey. Make it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love.
Don't worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a better-paying job. None of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you happier. You'll acquire these things and then only want more. Instead, learn to be satisfied with having enough — and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things … use that time doing things you love.
Find your passion, and pursue it doggedly. Don't settle for a job that pays the bills. Life is too short to waste on a job you hate.
Love Should Be Your Rule
If there's a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love. It might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there's no better rule in life.
Some would live by the rule of success. Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow.
Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others. They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy.
Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn't live by that path. They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion.
Live your life by the rule of love. Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart. Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love. Open your soul to them.
Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in humanity. Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand.
Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy. The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him. He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love.
And most of all, love yourself. While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are.
Finally, know that I love you and always will. You are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I can. Godspeed.
Love, Your Dad
爸爸给儿子的信英文范文三：And now as you are an adult, everything you do at present and what you want to be in the future will entirely depend on you, on how you strive, work and fight. After all, this is a world wherein everything does not come at the click of your fingers nor by dreaming. You must exert efforts for result to come.
Remember that the world does not revolve around you. You revolve around the world. The world does not fit you; you must fit into it. As you grow older, you will find out that what you get is just exactly the same amount of what you give. And for that reason, you should never stop trying and trying.
There are a few things which you should follow as a matter of principle and as a way of life. Guidelines that would make you and could lead you on a path towards greatness and glory. Among them is the preservation of your integrity. This goes with your name, honour and your family. Another is giving to the best of your ability in everything and anything you do. Never show that you are too lax or unconcerned nor to be remiss in your responsibilities. Always aim high, for the best and to be number one. Show that you know how to repay kindness through your gratitude. Always be true to yourself and to others and avoid plasticity. People should not be taken for granted. Lastly, never fail in your believe and trust in God. He should not only save as your pillar of strength and confidence and answer to your spiritural needs. He too, must equally be remembered in times of happiness and success. There are a lot of people who love you very dearly. Friends, males and females, relatives and admirers. The will come and they will go. Some for short time, others longer.
We who are in the family will probably care for you longest. At least as long as we are alive and have that capacity to love and care. Hopefully you, too can provide the time, attention and care for us.
On my end, the only thing I would aspire for is that I hope I have not failed as a father. I think I could proudly say to your brothers and sisters, to everyone, to God and to you that I tried.
I pray that the best is still to come. Remember, we love you very much.
Again, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
ALWAYS
今天起你已经长大成人了。你现在要做一件事就要靠自己了，你将来想成为什么样的人也完全取决于你自己的努力了。你的未来取决于你如何去奋斗，如何对待工作和如何去拼搏--总之，这个世界，天上不会掉馅饼，也不会弹指一挥就可以梦想成真。这是一个你必须为达目的而竭尽全力的世界。
你要明白：这个世界不会围着你转，而你却要围着这个世界转。社会不会适应你，而你却要去适应这个社会。随着你逐渐成人，你会发现你得到的恰恰是你所付出的。为此，你要不停的奋争。
有几件事情你要作为做人的行为准则而牢记终生。这些准则将照亮你的人生之路。首先要正直。这一品质将永远伴随着你的名字，你的名声和你的家庭。其次是，无论你做什么事情，你都要全力以赴。永远不要马马虎虎，漫不经心。对工作要保持强烈的责任感。每时每刻总是朝着最高目标，争取最好，争取第一。你要显示出你是个知恩图报的人。对自己对别人都要真诚。要有原则性。不要将别人的好意都看作理所当然。要坚持自己的信仰，相信上帝。那是你力量和自信的支柱，也是你的精神需求的源泉。无论是幸福之时还是成功之后都不可忘记。
你未来的日子里会遇到各种各样的人，男人、女人、亲戚和知己朋友。你来他往，有的时间长有的时间短。作为家人的我们可能陪伴你的时间最长。起码在我们的有生之年和能力所及期间始终关注着你。同样，希望你也能对我们付出你的时间和关爱。
最后，我唯一期望的是我希望自己是个合格的父亲。我想我可以骄傲地对你的兄弟姐妹们，对所有人，对上帝，对你说：“为你我尽心尽力了”
我为更加美好的未来而祈祷。记住：我非常爱你。
再次祝你生日愉快!
你的
父亲
